Everything But The Weed

Approved by:
Linda Maze, a Wedding photography Gainesville FL in Gainesville Florida

A good  marriage or relationship should have  its more casual side to counter  the difficulties  of coping with daily  ups and downs and life in general. The ability to make each other happy and to laugh with each other is fundamental for the a long lived and stable relationship or marriage, the old saying  “stay together play together” should be at the core  of your psyche.

The American Poet Ella Wilcox hit it on the head when she wrote “laugh and the world laughs with you, ….”,  laughter is a great way of relaxing particularly for those  a close and loving partnership and can be very helpful in averting potential arguments  by showing  you both that there is  a lighter or amusing way of looking at most issues.

I have found  that in extreme  examples, once a relationship  has got near to the edge, if they can seek then laughter has great reconcilling  properties when you are trying to work out how to get your ex back

You will often  see rather  miss-matched couples, he or she for instance, may be very  striking  while  their partner may seem quite plain , or an apposing mix of outgoing and shy personalities, whatever their outward differences if  you could question  them as to what  made them find each other attractive the answer is usually that they keep each other laughing . If things do go amiss then when you are attempting  to get your ex back, revisit the times when you made each other laugh and restart  your relationship from there.

Thre are many ways of bonding at the beginning  of a  relationship being able to play, share and laugh are vital, the critical  thing is to ensure that this part of your relationship never gets stale. Always make  a bit of  ‘you’ time to do  these activities, however busy and stressful  the rest of your lives become .

If we take a moment to consider the saying  “stay together play together” it seems practically a dumb  thing to say, but as with a greta many simple phrases they have deeper  meaning that far over reaches their glibness.

In this case  probably  the greatest piece  of relationship advice  that I know  is contained in these few short words. Every one of my friends I know that arein long and happy relationships have survived  by being capable of making their partners life a lot  brighter  through  shared humour.

Humour of course means different things to different people and in a steady marriage, malicious  humour and sarcasm must never enter the picture as they will be a harmful  element in any relationship. That way you will be almost certain that you will never have to ask how to get your ex back. The funny moments you share in your relationship are your personal secrets,( you cannot  explain them, nor should you wish to ) and are  very private  to the two of you while being meaningless to everybody  else, never the less they define you and your relationship.

I think what I am trying to get over to you is that when the right person comes along, and they  will, you will just see  they are the right person  for you because – they make  you laugh, which helps to ensure that you stay together play together.